Praying to the Virgin… in a Manly Way3 April 2010
Even as a practicing Roman Catholic, David Calvillo had felt for years that praying the rosary was for old women. But for men? Manly men?
Then, at a retreat, he went through the 59 beads (53 “Hail Marys” and six “Our Fathers”) with a large group of men. It changed his attitude, and now he is trying to change other men’s minds about the vital importance of praying to the Virgin Mother.
Calvillo, himself an accountant (and champion of his fantasy football league, he is quick to mention), encourages men to take up their rosary as part of the solid platform for being a godly man. Praying to Mary, rather than being a capitulation to feminine power, is actually “a weapon of spiritual warfare” to help men overcome their temptations (Wall Street Journal, 2 Apr 2010, A5).
Catholic men are taking notice, sometimes trading in their unused, feminine beads for newer, manlier ones. One man has made a rosary out of ball bearings. One manufacturer has come up with novelty designs for boys, including a rosary with football-shaped beads. Calvillo, who himself has been known to use an iPhone rosary application, sells products and encourages this masculine subculture on his web site, RealMenPraytheRosary.org